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So the title might be a bit bold, but you do have the ability to make a guy fall in love with you so deeply that he will never want to let you go.  This is for married women as well as single women.  Ladies, just because he put a ring on it doesn’t mean your work is done.

If you are going to be successful and you don’t plan on being single (There is absolutely nothing wrong with single btw!) you need a high quality man in your corner that doesn’t drag you down.  So choose the guy you want to make fall in love with you wisely!

Never Chase A Guy

If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, this is rule number one with no exceptions. 

Let a man be an actual man and let him come to you instead of you going after him.  Men love a good chase.  They don’t want a woman that is so easy he doesn’t have to work for her.

I don’t care how sexy a guy tries to tell you it is when a woman chases a man.  It’s not.   A man will want you if you are easy to get, he just probably won’t want to keep you. 

Get yourself some other interests so you don’t put all of your emphasis on one person.

Treat Him Right

While a great relationship is one where a man treats a woman like a queen and a woman treats a man like a king, it isn’t always so.   Treat a him right if you want to make a guy fall in love with you.

Have you ever seen a woman cowering around a man like a servant, and treating him like a king while he is acting like a court jester!  That’s not cute.

It goes both ways, Have you seen women treating men badly, while she thinks she is the queen and he is her servant.  Respect should go both ways.  If you want to learn how to make a guy fall in love with you, watch successful relationships and take notes!

If a guy doesn’t act right and you are not married, save yourself years of heartache and move on.  If you are married to a man that acts as the court jester, it’s time to evaluate what you can do to make this relationship work. 

Once you are married and you partner doesn’t reciprocate the love, it falls on your shoulders to see if you can change the dynamic of the relationship.  You can’t control other people, but you can control yourself. 

You can learn how to make a guy fall in love with you if you work at it!  Things worth having are worth working for.

Feed Him

Make a guy fall in love with you by cooking.  They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.  I can say that is absolutely true. 

While cooking may not be your jam, errybody’s gotta eat!  If you are going to be CEO of your home , at the very least you will have to learn how to plan and make meals. 

Cooking isn’t that difficult, but it can be intimidating.  Learn the basics, and learn them well.  Watch the cooking channel for some inspiration and recreate those things at home.

Don’t try out a brand new recipe the first time you cook for a guy.  Once he’s hooked you can try out new recipes.

I try out new recipes on my husband all the time, but the first time I cooked for him I used the best recipe that I had already prepared many times for myself and my girlfriends.  He loved what I made for him so much, I believe that recipe sealed the deal in our relationship.

There are a lot of recipes cheats out there that taste delicious.  Try googling and search YouTube for some hacks and give them a try if you want to learn how to cook and make a guy fall in love with you!

Look Great

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I know, it’s superficial, right?  Who wants to look like something the cat just dragged in?  Not me and not you.  It doesn’t matter if you are not perfect, just do the best with what you’ve got if you want to learn how to make a guy fall in love with you.

Wear clothes that flatter your (ass)ets.  Invest in you with some nice clothes, hair, nails, and makeup.  You don’t have to go all the way if that isn’t your thing, but women look so much better with groomed and filled brows, clean manicured nails, nice hair, lipstick, and a cute outfit.

I dress for me, but I also want to look great for my husband.  I want to be someone I can feel good about.  How you feel about yourself is the way others will see you too.  Think about this, if you want to be seen as beautiful, first you must feel beautiful.

Be Clean And Organized

If you want to learn how to make a guy fall in love with you, be someone who makes him want to be and do better. 

Keep yourself, your car, your purse, and your home clean and organized.  Be top-notch, and you will be someone who he will not possibly want to live without.

There is a rule that I live by, and it’s whenever I touch something, I’d like it to be better after I touched it.  This goes for my man too, I want to add to his life, not subtract from it.

A few organizational tips:
  • When you reach into your bag to dig for something, pull everything out and organize it when you put it back in
  • When you walk into a room, tidy an area before you leave, something small that takes two minutes and do this each time you enter the room throughout the day until it’s finished
  • After you touch something, ask yourself “Am I leaving this better than I found it”
 If you want to see how to make a guy fall in love with you be clean and organized.  Being clean and organized is part of your gorgeous package.


Don’t Complain

If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, don’t complain.  If he has a ton of things that you would complain about, you probably want to find someone else to fall in love with you.

Complaining is one of the biggest turn-offs ever.  A complainer is difficult to love.  Complaining is like fingernails on a chalkboard, especially if someone has a whiny voice.  Karen is a complainer, don’t be a Karen.  If you know a person named Karen that doesn’t complain,  be like her.  😉

If you have to complain, find a different outlet to do it.  Write down your complaints and work through them on paper. 

If you have an issue about something someone is doing, write it down to  gain more perspective. You may decide the issue is something you simply need to get over, or if it is something that merits some discussion.

Find Out Who You Are

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So many times, we forget just who we are.  We get so involved in doing things for other people we don’t take the time to grow and come into our own personalities. 

Spend time alone, getting to know you.  Then you can be refreshed and rejuvenated, and in turn be even more desirable to make a guy fall in love with you. 

Before I met my husband, I was really settled into who I was.  I really wasn’t even interested in getting married, I loved the single me, but he stole my heart, we fell madly in love, and the rest is history.

I am 100% sure that if I did not first find out who I was and embrace being single, I never would have been able to make my husband fall in love with me.

Don't Be A Loudmouth

We all know one, or maybe we are one.  Loud talking and putting your business out there for everyone to hear, or putting yo damn private business all over Facebook.

If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, don’t be a loudmouth.

A man may notice you if you are being a loudmouth, but it won’t be for the right reasons.  You know what they say, actions speak louder than words, let your actions be loud, not your mouth.  Your actions of being kind, successful, and strong will speak volumes of who you are.

Allow A Guy To Pay

If you want to learn how to make a guy fall in love with you, allow the him to pay for things for you! 

You don’t owe him anything for footing the bill on your dates either.  

When a man goes through the physical act of spending money on you, it reinforces that you are worth something.  It allows him to feel like a man. 

Guys are meant to be providers, and if they are not allowed to pay for things, you are subconsciously undermining their masculinity.

Once you are married, of course, you will contribute and money becomes community property. 

When you are in the dating stages, don’t sell yourself short by going Dutch.  If you don’t know your worth, how is a guy supposed to?  If you want to learn how to make a guy fall in love with you, learn how to know your worth.  You are worth him paying for your dates!

Do you really want to teach a guy that you don’t need him to pamper or take care of you?  Or worse yet, do you want to marry a child instead of a man?  What you do in the dating stages will carry over to the rest of your relationship.

Be A Good Listener

You don’t need your man to know every single detail of your life.   This goes for marriage and dating.

Of course, your husband is your best friend, but if you leave a little mystery in the marriage that keeps an extra spark. 

I’m not saying to hide things, but don’t fill him in on every little mundane thing you did throughout the day.  Ask him some questions and be a good listener.  Who doesn’t love to be listened to?

Be Successful & Encouraging

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There is nothing sexier than a girl boss.  You women who own and run your own business are confident naturally make a guy fall in love with you! 

Don’t start a business to get a man, do it to build your confidence and your bank account.  We all have something to offer the world, why not get paid for it? 

You can encourage your man to be an entrepreneur too, and if that isn’t his thing, you can encourage him to excel in his area of expertise.  Men love encouragement.

Women should be successful in their own right.  You don’t want to spend your entire life building someone else’s empire, build your own.

Stay Out Of Debt

Seriously, who wants a woman with a bunch of baggage.  Debt is baggage.  Debt is a struggle, and nobody intentionally wants to struggle.  If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, keep your baggage to a minimum.

If it is too late and you are already in debt, pay off your debt using the debt snowball method. If you have debt, that does not make you irresistible. 

I know it takes a lot of cash to look great and to take care of yourself, but if you can’t afford it, you just have to delay that part of the plan.  I’d much prefer to be a little unkempt than to pay for things that I want on credit.

Besides, if you want money instead of buying things on credit, why not just manifest the money? 

Bonus Tip - Be Beautiful On The Inside

While men love a beautiful woman, it’s more important what is inside of your heart that what you look like on the outside. 

Don’t use ugly words or speak harshly.  Kindness is beautiful, and when you are beautiful on the inside that radiates onto the outside. 

I will never forget what my daughter told me when she was four, “Mommy, my favorite part of you is your mouth because so many beautiful things come out of there.” 

My mouth isn’t always spewing beauty that’s for sure, but her words are a great reminder to stay positive and remember that beauty starts on the inside.

If you put these 12 tips into action, you will live life as your best self, and then what guy can resist falling head over heels in love with you?  So what do you think?  Do you like these ideas for how to make a guy fall in love with you?  Let me know in the comments I would love to hear from you.

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